One day I'm going to grow up, NOT ! Life is wonderful, besides, whatever it may be at the moment, it's certainly better then the alternative! Live it, tomorrow isn't guarenteed, today may be all you've got!. I plan on going out kicking and screaming right up to the end. There's not much I can't do for myself, or get myself, so I'm looking for someone who can meet me on a spiritual, intellctual and creative level. He must love spontaneity, family, gourmet cooking and eating, be secure enough with himself to be with someone who also is. I'm honest to a fault, if you don't want to know the truth, don't ask me. I'm loyal to a fault, sometimes putting others before myself too often,(I'm working on that) I love traveling, seeing and learning about new people and cultures. I can be happy spending a whole weekend holed up in the house watching movies and sports and stuffing our mugs, or I can be just as at home attending a blacktie for an ambassader and hold my own. I've had many different and wonderful job experiences that I feel have given me immense perspective on life. I am an avid reader and would love to find many of the same interest's in a relationship, but also someone with diverseness from me to bring "new' into my life. I love learning things and teaching what I know, it's all about sharing. Nothing attracts me more then a meeting of the minds. I love long conversation's on just about any topic and love to debate and agree to disagree.